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Article: Healing The Effects of Trauma

Dear Friends,

    Having worked with people since 1988 on recovery from the devastating effects of childhood abuse and trauma, I can appreciate what you may have already gone through in your life.  The effects of abuse, neglect, and trauma from childhood do not end there but extend throughout a person's adult life unless something is done to stop it.

  When you are on the receiving end of inadequate or destructive parenting, including violence or abandonment, your mind and body is programmed and conditioned to act and react in ways that do not lead to success and a happy life.  In the same way that an abused person's life was out of her/his control, now the mind and emotions are out of control.  Chaos and violence outside have been taken in.  Critical treatment by others becomes criticism we lay upon ourselves.

    Where we have learned to hurt ourselves and be on the receiving end of hurt, we have not learned who we are as unique spiritual beings, or how to acknowledge our true feelings, or how to own our power, stand up for our rights, and negotiate successful relationships.  Instead, the relationships of childhood, in which we were powerless and victimized, continue to provide the models for how we relate today.  Recovery from such childhoods require what amounts to a body-mind-spirit makeover.

    Fortunately, we have come a long way in understanding how to accomplish this.  We know about how children develop into adults, and what kinds of parenting are required for this development to occur.  We know more about the structure of the mind -- how even normal people can have subpersonalities -- significantly different aspects of themselves -- living and even interacting within one body.  We know that a part of ourselves formed during childhood -- an Inner Child -- can endure into adulthood and be related to as if it were a separate person.  We know about trauma and how it can lead to recurring symptoms, which is known as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  Finally, we have begun to explore the true nature of human beings, which includes our spiritual dimensions and our subtle energy systems: the aura (energy fields surrounding the physical body, related to our subtle bodies), the chakras (subtle centers of consciousness), and the meridians (the subtle energy channels which connect the organs of the body).

    We are finding that the spiritual and energy dimensions of the person are, although normally not visible to most people, inseparable from the symptoms and patterns we seek to change.  In many ways, the subtle and unseen realms have more of a determining effect on the problems we seek to solve than anything we normally see or interact with.

    A successful integration of psychological, spiritual, and energy healing techniques and an understanding of ourselves as social, psychological, spiritual, and energy beings provides the power necessary to counteract the conditioning, fears, and misperceptions that keep a person stuck and identified with themselves as a powerless, undeserving victim.

    The therapy process begins by you telling me your "life story," during which time I will interrupt to clarify points of your history that I have found to to critical as to how to conduct the recovery process.  If people come in "In Crisis," we will most likely dispense with the history for a session or two until we handle the immediate mental-emotional upset.  A number of the energy healing and energy psychology techniques I use have a direct and immediate effect on neutralizing negative emotions.  The total length of therapy depends upon the extent of trauma, your willingness and motivation to change, and how far you want to go.  The help I offer extends from eliminating destructive emotions, patterns, and attitudes, to establishing new successful and productive patterns, to understanding yourself as a spiritual being and dealing with how your can achieve your purpose in life.  Depending upon the techniques we use, sessions run from one to three hours.

    I'd be very happy to talk to you about how we could work productively together so you can move more easily and quickly on to a happier, more peaceful life.  Mornings are the best time to call at (201) 461-7347.

    Some more information on me: I have my Doctorate from Columbia University in Psychology and have studied alternative methods with the people listed below.  I've been working with people therapeutically for 20 years.  I published the holistic magazine Quality Times from 1991 to 2000, and currently I am the web publisher of NJHolistic.Com. I also founded an educational and support group for holistic singles known as SHARE.


          Jay Kantor


Information About My Training In Holistic Modalities
Please click on websites listed for information about specific modalities.

    1) Dr. Dolores Krieger, Co-Originator of Therapeutic Touch
    2) Barbara Brennen, Originator of Healing Science
    3) Dr. Robert Jaffe, Founder of School of Energy Mastery, Advanced Energy Healing
    4) Patricia Hayes, Co-Founder of Delphi University, Mediumship & Ro-Hun Therapy,
Website: Rohun.Com
    5) Dr. Bill Baldwin, Originator of Spirit Releasement Therapy
    6) Dr. Glenn Mendoza, Pranic Healing
    7) Rev. Rosalyn Bruyere, Originator of Energy Chelation, Laying On Of Hands
    8) Dr. Vasant Lad, Ayurveda (Classical Indian Medicine)
    9) Energy Psychology, Dr. Fred Gallo, Dr. Gary Craig, Emotional Freedom Techniques, Websites: HealYourEmotions.Com, TappingIntoSuccess.Com
    10) Margaret Ruby, Originator DNA Activation, Energy Interference Patterning, Advanced DNA Repair, Rapid Healing, Website: HealingBeyondBelief.Com
    11) Dr. John Veltheim, Originator of The BodyTalk System, Websites: HealingWithBodyTalk.Com, BodyTalk Article

Articles and Interviews

Article:  Healing

So Many Paths To Healing And The Ego's Resistance To Them
By Jay Kantor, Ph.D.

Interview:  Longevity

        1) Inner Secrets of Health And Longevity: An Interview With Dr. Gary Null
By Jay Kantor, Ph.D.

Interview:  Meditation

        1) Interview With Meditation Master Sant Rajinder Singh
By Jay Kantor, Ph.D.

Article:  Spiritual Psychotherapy / Inner Child / Healing

        1) Overcoming The Destructive Effects of Childhood Conditioning
By Jay Kantor, Ph.D.



Jay Kantor, Ph.D.
10 Wilsey Sq.  #280
Ridgewood, NJ
(201) 461-7347
(201) 615-8613  (Cell)
Email: qtimes@aol.com


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